Tuesday, February 18, 2014

In Which I Go to a Foreign Land and Members Feed Us Caffeinated Desserts

Oh, hello there. I'm really not a fan of Monday holidays. Don't people know that P-Day is a really stupid day for a holiday? Get the hint, people. 

We spent a lot of the day last Monday saying goodbye to people in the ward and zone. I didn't see nearly as many people as I wanted to, but I was able to spend some good time with some of my favorite people. I also had to pack, and let's get real - packing STINKS. I had no idea where I was going or who I was with, which was really hard. I'm a planner, and not having any sort of plan drove me bonkers. 

Tuesday morning, we were all packed and headed out the door when Sister Sylvester got a call from President Pingree asking if she'd be willing to train. She said yes, and we started scrambling to get everything in the car and go pick up the other Sisters so she wouldn't be alone once I left. Then, we were at transfer meeting. Here's how it goes - everyone goes to the Hafer building. Once you get there, you track down a transfer sheet, which has all of the missionaries in the mission listed where they're serving. Once you find one of those, you look for your name, and see who your companions are. You then creepily stalk around the parking lot and look for someone with that name on their tag and say, "Oh, hey. I guess we're companions." After much socializing and goodbyes, you then get all of your stuff into your new companion's car and drive away. It's craziness. 

I'm now serving in the Westfield Ward with Sister Hardy and Sister McLean. We're really close to the mission office and the airport, which is pretty cool. Sister McLean came out at the same time as I did, and Sister Hardy came out the transfer after we did - this is Sister Hardy's baby area, and Sister McLean left her first area to come here last transfer. I definitely did not expect to be in a trio, and it's a totally new experience. 

I didn't know how hard it was to leave your first area - no one said anything about it (cough, Elder Vought, cough, Sister Quist, cough...) It's been a really hard week, I won't lie. There's been lots of crying and so much newness. I don't think I realized just how many things change when you leave an area - almost literally everything you know changes. It was especially hard to leave Sister Sylvester, especially because she and I are just best friends. The hardest thing for me is that there really wasn't anything that made it better except time - there's that endurance thing again. You just have to keep going and know that things will get better. I've been trying really hard not to dwell too much on my last area - I'm not sure how well I'm doing, but I'm trying. 

Westfield is a very different place from Oak Ridge. It's more sketchy, and there are approximately 7 million apartment complexes in our area. We do a lot of sneaking through gates. We have some really great investigators and potential investigators though. I like them a lot. One of our investigators, Christelle, is being baptized on Saturday. She's wonderful, and her two year old, Mahalia, is the cutest thing of all time. I love them. 

Oh - and then I turned six months old on Friday. For reals? I just got here. I remember when Sister Sylvester told me she'd been out for 6 months and I was so impressed, even though she always said that she felt like she'd just gotten here. I see what she means. 

On Sunday, we went to a member's house for dinner, and she fed us some strawberries and chocolate, but it was some raw organic recipe, so it had pure cacao powder in it (for the record, it was delicious.) She warned us that we might be a little hyper that night because of the caffeine in the cacao, but I didn't think much of it. Let's just say that we kind of went psycho crazy. It took us an hour and a half to do nightly planning, where it usually only takes a half an hour at the most. It was insane, but it helped to break down a lot of walls and make us closer. 

So, that's all. I'm not doing spectacularly, but I'm getting there. It's just going to take some time, so I'll work on patience. Sigh. I'm not very good at that. This week I was lead to this really cool connection between two scriptures. In 3 Nephi 21:10, the Lord is talking about Joseph Smith and the things he'd have to face - that he might be hurt, but that the Lord was taking care of him and he'd be healed. Then I chanced upon D&C 127:2, where Joseph is giving his account of his trials. He faced a lot, and he had to endure a lot, but his perspective was what made all the difference. Look it up. It's great. 

So, y'all are great. I like you a whole lot, and I'm so grateful for such excellent people to call my friends. 

Love, 
Me. 


Sister Sylvester loves it when I take pictures of her. 

Mahalia and I are quite entertained by the camera. 


Mahalia and Sister McLean.

This is my man catching face. I was practicing selfies in the car. It went well. 

That's us.

This is Micah. He had his farewell yesterday, and he got this fabulous lei. Why did I not get a fabulous lei at my farewell?

We take awkward missionary pictures. It's fun. 


Sister McLean sees if she can pencil me in on her calendar. 

Hermana Phillips and Sister Hardy. Don't be too jealous of her cute face. 




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